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| me, duh |
So it's Valentine's Day. With that in
mind, I have decided to post an "Epic, Awesome Personal Dating Ad".
I have no idea how to meet someone special, so I just started writing and
this is what happened and I am tossing it out there to the universe. Feel
free to forward it. Here we go…
I seek a kind, generous and brave person with
similar values, interests and background. I seek someone who is creative,
altruistic, intelligent, honest and complicated. I am pansexual, which for me
means that I am looking mostly for a brunette with blue-green-grey eyes who has
the above-mentioned personal qualities. Gender is irrelevant. I currently live in
Eugene, but I would be willing to relocate (eventually) to Portland or Ashland,
Oregon, or relocate back to Los Angeles for the right person.
If you have kids also, that’s great; I like kids of
all ages. I am the mom of a brilliant, challenging and exceptional
special needs ten year old son. I also live with a cat that I serve
and obey. It is essential that you genuinely like kids and family life
for a relationship to work because that is a priority to me.
Words that describe me include idealistic,
intelligent, compassionate, intense and complex. I have the ability to curse like a
sailor as the need arises or if I just fucking feel like it. I am
spiritual and ethical, but not at all religious. I have an incurable and insatiable drive to make
the world a better place. I am a great cook, a music lover, and an
enthusiastic but neglectful gardener. I read voraciously and love the theater, concerts and cultural events. I like
sci-fi movies and action flicks, but I have a secret soft spot for romances
like Sense & Sensibility, Notting Hill, the intro
of Up and The Terminator. I have a
wicked sense of humor, but people seem to like it, or they run away and it’s
not an issue.
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| this is NOT me |
After college, I escaped to Hollywood where I fell unexpectedly in love
with film and television production. I am incredibly proud of having
worked on Star Trek: Deep Space Nine, Star Trek: First
Contact, and ellen (among many other shows and
movies). I currently work as a preschool teacher and at a
non-profit that supports families with special needs children here in
Eugene. My mind insists that I am 35 years old but my birth
certificate says I am 45. I am 5’4”, curvy, solid and strong and am
a brunette with brown eyes. “Old enough to know better and young enough
not to care” is definitely applicable.
I want to wake up next to my beloved and compare
morning bed-head hair, make pancakes every Saturday for breakfast and create a
home refuge where the laughter of happy children is a constant background
noise. I have enjoyed being single, but now want a down-to-earth romance
with someone special for the rest of my life. I am a bit scared to
be doing this. I am doing it anyway. Synchronicity is
afoot, and I must see where she leads.
Email me at intrepid.infj@yahoo.com and
let’s talk.
So, there it is
